Long COVID / ME-CFS
It's a post-viral illness that can last weeks to years, there is no known cure but there are some resources I have found helpful, and hope you do too.

I have literally zero medical training and nothing here is meant to diagnose or cure anything, it’s just a few things I found that helped me, but your mileage will most likely vary, but I hope you might find some of this useful ✌️

Not sure what Long COVID is? Start here.

Who’s affected by LC?

As of September 2024, it appears that in the U.S. 17.9% of the population has experienced long COVID, and it generally affects middle-aged to younger people more than people over 60, with cisgender females and transgender people being the most affected. 

There is an interactive graph linked below I’d recommend checking out.

Update Feb 2nd 2025: it appears the Current U.S. government felt the need to remove this data, so this link is now dead, but you can see the screenshot I took before it was taken down.

Source: cdc.gov

Videos

Several Videos I found useful/interesting, this is a growling list.

What it can look like to get hit by LC (long COVID)

In this video interview, Jack Bearfox talks about his 5-year struggle with ME/CFS, triggered by a viral infection and heartbreak

Dianna is Live streaming a day in her life as someone suffering from long COVID and ME/CFS.

For those who don’t know, Dianna, also known as Physics Girl, is a big science and educational YouTuber who unfortunately has been hit very hard by Long Covid, and has been bedridden for years.

Dianna and her husband made this live stream to show what a day in her life can look like, I can only imagine how much more effort it would have taken from her knowing she’s on camera all day, and how bold she was to do this. 

This was part of a fundraising event, if you’d like to donate here’s the link from the video. 

https://www.omf.ngo/?form=donatenow

Sleep and Anxiety

One of the symptoms I struggle with a lot is sleep, it feels like I haven’t woken up feeling rested for years now 😢, but a few things that have helped me are trying to deal with the anxiety I developed around sleep.

I got more and more anxious that I wouldn’t be able to sleep or sleep well and that in itself started making me sleep worse.

This probably sounds like it’s not useful, but the message of this video is to give up on your sleep, you can’t control your sleep, and it will come when it wants.

I still have a bedtime routine so I don’t take this as don’t do anything, but more try to stop obsessing and let go, it wasn’t easy for me but I now almost never dread going to sleep like I used to do, I sleep a little better sometimes and a little worse, and that’s just how it goes. 

It’s been a long jurney, but as I’ve tryed to remove or lessen the anxiety around sleep it has helped, but also medications made a huge difference, I’ve been taking several for a while now and with an agressivly regulary sleep time, the medications, and working on my anxiey, my sleep has gotten much more managable. I still have bad nights, and plenty of bad days, and regulary wake up with nightmares, but I survive, and they don’t hit as hard as they used to, I have more bandwith to handle the changes. 

Sleep and histamines

One thing I’ve noticed is that having higher histamine foods can lead to higher heart rates, during the morning, especially, but also in the waking up during the night with a racing heart. Apparenlty 3 am is when histamies can peak, and that seemed to be true for me, I would wake up covered in sweat and panicked, whith a heart rate going a mile a minute, I took me a while to notice that my heart was racing though, I needed to use a pule monitor to figure out why I was so panicked. 

I noticed this especially with ripe bananas and apples, with my heart rate monitor, I was able to see my heart rate jump and stay higher for several hours when the first thing I ate was a ripe banana.

Post-Exertional Malaise (PEM)

PEM has been very difficult for me, it’s made doing anything active impossible, from chatting with friends to light or heavy exercise, just reading a simple bit of text, or listening to music used to be too much for me, my brain would crave the distraction of listening to something to distrace me from how horrible I felt, but it would take too much energy even to lay still and listen to a podcast.

The profound lack of enegery and the backlash when using any amount of energy was and is so aggressive it’s hard to comprehend, even now as I’ve improved a bit, small things can throw my body into a month long recouperation spiral, and those spirals generally feel horrible, you hurt, you’re body gives the weirdest most uncomfortable sensations, you have a dark heavy blanked of fatiuige hanging over you, and you can do almost nothing. 

PEM is different for many people, but for me it’s been one of the most debilitating parts, I was a very active person and movement is where I found most of my joy, but having such a negative feeling connected to movement and long recovery times, has built a negative association with movement, and also just makes you scared to do anything. 

Not feeling like you don’t own your body, and that it’s being controlled or just acting mostly out of your control is a scary sensation for me, the slow process of letting go of that perceived control was and is hard. 

This video explains what it is and what to do when you feel it, along with that repeated PEM episodes can lower your overall health, basically repeated crashing can be very bad, and should be avoided as much as possible. 

This video also links to some very helpful PDF’s to help with communication and crashes, you can check them out with the link below.

https://batemanhornecenter.org/education/mecfs-guidebook/

What is Post-Exertional Malaise?

PEM is a flare of symptoms and/or the appearance of new symptoms after exertion, often presenting 24 hours after the triggering event. Physical activity, cognitive overexertion, and sensory overload can all trigger PEM.

Post-exertional malaise is a unique symptom, incongruent with experiences of fatigue after overexertion in healthy individuals. It is not the same as being more tired than normal after activity.

Podcasts

Several Podcastas I found useful/interesting, this is a growling list.

Long Covid Podcast

This podcast has been really helpful for me, from personal stories from people trying to survive with Long Covid, to the various doctors and caregivers trying to help those who have it. They have many great topics, you can just search their archive, with everything from nutritual advice to practical way to try and stay sane. 

Try starting with this one

And here’s the full podcast

Ologies Long Covid episode

A decent overview, and a look at a doctor trying to listen to patients, instead of telling them how they feel, listening to what they say. 

It’s hard to describe how fully debilitating this condition can be, and he had several stories from people struggling with Long Covid that I though helped explain how it can feel to people who haven’t experienced it. 

Social media

Several Social media accounts I found useful/interesting, this is a growling list.

Long Covid Alliance

Website

Instagram

YouTube

Long Covid SOS

Website

Instagram

YouTube

Joe Glasgow

TikTok

Instagram

YouTube

Wondering

Website

Instagram

YouTube

Jemma Bella

Website

Instagram

YouTube

Articles

Several Articles I found useful/interesting, this is a growling list.

Blog: How to get on

This is a great blog and group of resources for those trying to survive with ME/CFS, but is applicable to many chronically ill peoples, with how to practice pacing to how to talk to doctors. 

Blog: Recovery from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome

An extremely detailed guide and story of Bruce Campbell, PhD long recovery story, it has great pacing types and goes into great detail about how he felt and dealt with many situations that are common for those with chronic illness. Highly recommend, it’s what started my pacing attempts 🙃

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